I’m Breaking Up with Facebook. Here’s Why.

“I hope that in this year to come, you make mistakes. Because if you are making mistakes, then you are making new things, trying new things, learning, living, pushing yourself, changing yourself, changing your world. You’re doing things you’ve never done before, and more importantly, you’re Doing Something.” ~Neil Gaiman Welp, folks. It’s officially 2018. I’ve said it before and I’ll …

Curious & Curiouser Podcast, Episode 40: Rituals, Resolutions, & Woo

Oh hey! This week’s episode will be the last one of 2017. What? I know! But Tracey and I need a little vacation. Plus, this gives you time to catch up on all the episodes you missed these past several months so that you’re all ready for the new season starting on January 3rd of 2018. To wrap up the …

Curious & Curiouser Podcast, Episode 39: Pornography, Masturbation, & Shame

Get ready, folks. This week on Curious & Curiouser, Tracey and I are talking all about pornography. Is it ok to enjoy pornography? How does pornography impact relationships? Is watching pornography cheating? This conversation addresses all of these questions and more. It’s a lively discussion about a rather taboo topic. Tracey and I sincerely hope you enjoy it. As always, …

Be Nice to Yourself. You Did the Best You Could.

“The most sophisticated people I know — inside they are all children.” ~Jim Henson On my desk at home, I keep a photo of myself at approximately two years old. Aside from being adorable, this photo reminds me that I haven’t always been the full grown, slightly neurotic, culturally conditioned, emotional baggage-toting, self-armoring, surprisingly skeptical version of myself I am today. …

My Cat is a Jerk & Other Truths About Letting Go

“There are two means of refuge from the misery of life — music and cats.” ~Albert Schweitzer I’ve learned a lot about life and love and relationships from my cat. (Stay with me here. I know it seems like this is just going to be a story about how I turned into a cat lady and started obsessing about my feline …