On this week’s episode of the podcast, Tracey and I are asking: Why do we insist on ignoring the elephant in the room? We’re talking about all the different kinds of elephants we pretend not to see — in our relationships, in our health, in our work, etc — and how ignoring the elephants negatively impacts our lives.
Specific topics discussed include:
- Different kinds of elephants we ignore
- Why we’re afraid that acknowledging an elephant might be the end of a relationship
- How ignoring elephants feeds resentment
- Our need to feel safe
- Change is inevitable
- Talking about the elephant is a form of self care
- Projections and why we’re terrible at guessing what someone else is feeling
- How we make up stories about what other people are thinking/feeling
- Our brains fill in gaps
- How this applies to friendships
- Ignoring the elephants about our physical health
- We can compensate for ignored elephants for a long time. Until we can’t
- Procrastination and elephants
- How acknowledging the elephant builds self-trust
- How shame plays into this
- If you keep secrets about yourself in a relationship, you’ll never feel secure
- Acknowledging the elephant will require us to change
- When my elephant was how much I was drinking
- Why sleep, nutrition, hydration, movement are essential to emotional health/intelligence
- The elephants feed on our ignorance
- Dealing with the elephant now is a gift we give to our future selves
- Curiosity is key
- How ignoring the elephant is a habit
- And more!
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