This week’s conversation is all about how physical discomfort can enhance our capacity to tolerate emotional, psychological, and cognitive discomfort. Specifically, we’re asking the question: Why is pushing outside your comfort zone on a regular basis important?
Topics discussed include:
- Practicing physical discomfort
- How Crossfit helped Tracey gain confidence to get divorced
- How long distance running helped Cayly get through the initial phases of starting a business
- Physical discomfort and limiting beliefs
- Why therapy is supposed to be uncomfortable some of the time
- Why discomfort is necessary for change
- Letting children be uncomfortable to build resilience
- How Cayly’s dad pushed her towards to discomfort and why she’s so thankful for these lessons
- Discomfort and self-compassion enhance each other
- Why it can be helpful to have a coach to push us into discomfort and help us find our limits
- When therapy becomes enabling
- The limits of discomfort are different for different people on different days
- When discomfort becomes detrimental — chronic stress
- Cognitive discomfort and being tolerant of opinions that differ from our own
- Why having your opinions challenged/influenced is so uncomfortable
- Why nothing shocks Tracey and Cayly at this point in their practices and why they like to explore the dark and twisty stuff with their clients/patients
- Voluntary vs. involuntary discomfort
- Why it’s important not to rescue our children or partners from discomfort
- And more!
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