Today, Tracey and I are taking on a slightly somber topic, as we discuss what to do in the wake of tragedy, particularly when it unexpectedly strikes someone you love. The question we start with is: Are you allowed to be joyful when someone you know is grieving?
Specific topics discussed include:
- Why it’s okay to compartmentalize grief sometimes
- How grief and joy can coexist
- Why you don’t have to (and shouldn’t) take on your partner or close friend’s emotions
- How feelings are contagious
- How to know what’s yours and what’s not yours emotionally
- Why we can’t fix other people’s pain and what to do instead
- How to deal with larger scale tragedies
- Our inherent negativity bias and why we seek to avoid discomfort
- Investment without attachment
- And so much more!
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Living Beautifully with Uncertainty and Change by Pema Chodron
When Things Fall Apart by Pema Chodron
Broken Open by Elizabeth Lesser
I’ll Be Gone in the Dark by Michelle McNamara
Piquing Our Curiosity:
You’re Not Crazy, It’s Your Mother: Understanding and Healing for Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers by Danu Morrigan, a book Tracey highly recommends for anyone struggling to make sense of their relationship with their mother.
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