Social decluttering: Challenging, potentially awkward, and absolutely necessary.
If you enjoyed episode 4 of the podcast, you’ll love this conversation, in which Tracey and I explore the question: Does being your authentic self across all areas of your life organically weed people out?
We talk about social decluttering as it relates to dating, family, and — once again — friendships, and offer advice on how to gracefully exit a date, a relationship, or a contentious family situation.
We’re also discussing boundaries, authenticity, and self-knowledge as essential precursors to effective social decluttering, and the power of the “Fuck Yes” rule when determining what you really want.
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Highlights from this episode include:
- Episode 4 on Social Decluttering
- Why I don’t like the word “authentic” but we’re going to use it anyway
- How do you know if you’re being your authentic self?
- Fuck Yes Or No by Mark Manson
- Hell Yeah or No by Derek Sivers
- Tracey’s advice for using the Fuck Yes test while dating
- Are you allowed to end a date early and leave?
- How Tracey and I broke all the so-called dating rules when we first started dating our current partners
- Why I believe you should talk about procreation early on in dating, especially if you’re in your 30s
- Does being your authentic self mean being a kind person?
- The relationship between boundaries, authenticity, and kindness
- Is it ever ok to not be your authentic self to make a situation more comfortable? With family or at work?
- How privilege often allows us significantly more freedom to be our authentic selves — especially in a work environment — and makes us a responsible for speaking out against bigotry, racism, etc.
- Why Tracey and I are so open about our beliefs as service-based business owners
- Grey couch people and giving yourself permission to disengage from a relationship
- Dan Savage and the Savage Lovecast
- Cultivating your authentic self is a process
- How Tracey and I started learning who our authentic selves are and what that looked like when we were younger
- And more!
This week’s animal spotlight from the Pixie Project:
RAVEN, a beautiful, 12 year old black cat, who loves to snuggle and meditate, and who has, sadly, been declawed. She’s super low-maintenance and is friendly with other cats, dogs, and pretty much all humans. Easy peasy. Go here to view her profile and to fill out an application.
SNOW, a sweet, 9-month old kitty, who is looking for a mellow, low-key family to join. He’s a pretty shy guy, but warms up to most folks once he acclimated to a new place and gained a little confidence. His info can be found here. Check him out and take him home.
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